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Ways to Memorialize a Pet
Dedicated to and in loving memory of Barney by Dr. Leah
Hertzel,
Class of 1991, UC Davis School of Veterinary Medicine.
Below are a variety of ideas for memorializing a pet.
The following ideas were contributed by volunteers of
the Pet Loss Support Hotline, University of California at
Davis, School of Veterinary Medicine and used with
permission: The Human-Animal Bond and Grief,
Lagoni, Butler, Hetts, 1994. W.B. Saunders Company,
page 268.
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Take lots of photographs and, when you think you’ve
taken enough, take some more. Use the photos to fill
an album, place them in your pet’s favorite spots in the
house, make a collage with them, fill a multi-picture
frame with them, carry pictures in your wallet.
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Write a poem, story or song about or dedicated to
your pet.
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Write down your special memories of your pet. Add
stories or anecdotes from friends and family. Alternatively make a tape recording of the same thing.
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Chronicle your pet’s life with photos or by keeping a
journal.
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Write a letter to your pet expressing feelings you may
be struggling with.
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Videotape your pet doing anything and everything:
eating, sleeping, playing, etc.
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Make something that reminds you of your pet (for
example, a drawing, a clay sculpture, or a needlework
project).
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Have a professional portrait, sketch, or sculpture
done of your pet. This can be done after the pet’s death
from a photograph. You can also have a photo of your
pet transferred to a T-shirt, clock, button, or mug.
(Check advertisements in magazines like Dog Fancy and Cat Fancy for sources.)
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Keep baby teeth, whiskers, fur (from shaved areas)
and place them in a locket.
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Have fur spun to make yarn in order to knit/crochet
something in memory of your pet. Pet needs to have
medium-to-long hair.
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Keep pet tags. Place these on a key ring so you will
always be carrying the memory of your special friend
with you.
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Have a plaque made to honor your pet. Place it in a
special place next to your pet’s ashes, on a tree near
where your pet was buried, in the hospital where your
pet was cared for, etc.
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Volunteer your time at a humane organization or help
find homes for strays and unwanted pets.
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Plant a bush, shrub, tree, or flowers over or near the
location where the pet’s body or ashes are buried.
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Place ashes in a potted houseplant.
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Collect pet’s collars, tags, bowls, blankets, etc. and
place them in a special are in honor of your pet. You
can also place ashes, sympathy cards, etc. with them.
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Send out announcements of your pet’s death to those
who were close to you and your pet.
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